Yes and no — and the distinction matters enormously. Goal setting is powerful for near-term, well-defined objectives. But for the biggest, most meaningful achievements in life, rigid goal-setting can actually become the obstacle. Kenneth Stanley's research demonstrates this with startling clarity: the most ambitious goals are reached not by pursuing them directly but by following interesting stepping stones whose destinations you can't predict.

Stanley calls this "deception" — when you measure progress toward an ambitious goal, the measurement itself misleads you. The stepping stones that would actually get you there look nothing like the goal. Vacuum tubes don't look like computers. Early experiments with electricity don't look like the internet. If the Wright brothers had been measured on "progress toward commercial aviation," they'd have been defunded long before Kitty Hawk. The most ambitious objectives become less likely when they're made explicit objectives.

This doesn't mean goals are useless — it means they work best at a certain scale. Sir John Whitmore's GROW model uses goals as the starting point for coaching conversations, and they're effective because they're immediate, specific, and personally meaningful. "Get promoted this year" is a useful goal. "Revolutionize my industry" is not — it's a direction, not a goal, and treating it as a goal creates the very rigidity that prevents you from reaching it.

Dorie Clark navigates this tension beautifully in The Long Game. She recommends "optimizing for interesting" when you're uncertain about your direction. Follow curiosity. Invest 20% of your time in experiments that might lead nowhere. But also think in "Career Waves" — longer arcs of development that give your exploration a general shape without dictating specific outcomes. It's goal-setting at the right level of abstraction.

Naval Ravikant's perspective is characteristically direct: "Desire is a contract you make with yourself to be unhappy until you get what you want." The problem with goal-setting isn't the direction it provides — it's the attachment to specific outcomes. When your happiness is contingent on hitting a particular target, you've set yourself up for either disappointment or empty achievement. Set directions, not destinations. Know what matters to you, then stay open to how it manifests. The best things in my life arrived as surprises, not as checked-off items on a plan.